Bible Study About God’s Love

Bible Study About God’s Love

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“God is love” – we often hear this simple yet profound truth (1 John 4:8). But what does it really mean to say that love is at the very core of who God is? As believers, we encounter God’s love not just as a theory but as a living reality that shapes our daily walk.

From Genesis to Revelation, the Bible reveals a God whose love is steadfast, sacrificial, and saving.

This bible study will explore the theological meaning of God’s love, the rich Hebrew and Greek words translated as “love,” and how God’s love is expressed, commanded, and illustrated throughout Scripture.

We’ll see how God’s love is described in many forms – as tender mercy, loyal kindness, and self-giving sacrifice – and how we as Christians are called to live in response to that love.

Along the way, we’ll touch on powerful biblical examples, metaphors, prophecies, and even “types” (foreshadowings) that highlight the theme of divine love. My hope is that this study not only informs your mind but also encourages your heart.

God’s love is not just a doctrine; it’s personal and life-changing – even (and especially) in our everyday struggles and relationships.

Bible Study About God’s Love

Understanding “Love” in Scripture: Words and Definitions

When we read about “love” in the Bible, it’s important to know that different original words carry different shades of meaning. The KJV translates several Hebrew and Greek terms as “love.” By studying these words, we gain insight into how God’s love is portrayed.

Old Testament Words for Love (Hebrew)

The primary Hebrew word for love is ʾahavah (אַהֲבָה). This noun (from the verb ahev, “to love”) is broad in scope – it can refer to human love or divine love.

  • For example, ahavah describes romantic love (as when Jacob loved Rachel in Genesis 29:20) and deep friendship (David and Jonathan’s bond, 1 Samuel 18:3).
  • It also describes God’s love for His people: “Because the LORD loved you…He redeemed you” (Deuteronomy 7:8, KJV).
  • In fact, God tenderly says in Jeremiah, “Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love” (Jeremiah 31:3, KJV)​.

Unlike our modern idea of love as just a feeling, Hebrew thought emphasizes action and commitment in love.

  • Thus in Deuteronomy 6:5 we’re commanded to “love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might,” implying total devotion, not just emotion.

Another crucial Hebrew term is ḥesed (חֶסֶד), often rendered “mercy,” “kindness,” or “lovingkindness” in the KJV​. This word is rich with meaning. Ḥesed refers to steadfast, covenant love – a loyal, reliable kindness grounded in commitment.

Scholars note there’s no single English word that fully captures ḥesed. It combines affection, loyalty, and generosity – “a kind of love you can depend on”​.

Ḥesed is love expressed through faithful actions: keeping promises, showing mercy, and going above and beyond for the beloved​.

  • When God revealed His character to Moses, He described Himself as “abundant in goodness (ḥesed) and truth” (Exodus 34:6, KJV).

In other translations, that phrase appears as “abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness,” highlighting that God’s goodness is His loyal love​.

In short, ḥesed is God’s covenant love – the kind of devoted love by which He binds Himself to His people. Whenever we long for a love that never fails us, we are really longing for ḥesed​ – the reliable, compassionate love of God.

The Old Testament also speaks of God’s compassionate love with words like racham (רַחַם). Racham is often translated “mercy” or “compassion” and is related to the Hebrew word for “womb” (rechem).

This link suggests a tender, nurturing love – the feeling a mother has for her infant, or a father for his child.

  • For instance, Isaiah 49:15 pictures God’s love with maternal imagery: “Can a woman forget her sucking child?... yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee.”
  • Similarly, Psalm 103:13 says, “Like as a father pitieth (racham) his children, so the LORD pitieth them that fear him.”

God’s racham means His heart is moved with compassion for our weakness – a deeply emotional, protective love. Together, these Hebrew words (ahavah, ḥesed, racham) portray a God who loves with affection, loyalty, and tender mercy.

Interesting note: In Jewish thought, love (ahavah) is linked with giving. The Hebrew root hav means “to give,” suggesting that to love is to give of oneself​. We see this reflected in God’s actions – He gives generously to the objects of His love, as when “God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son” in the New Testament.

New Testament Words for Love (Greek)

In the Greek of the New Testament, the most important word for love is agápē (ἀγάπη). This is the term used to describe God’s unconditional, self-sacrificing love​.

It appears all over the New Testament, especially to describe the love God has for us and the love we ought to have for one another.

Agápē, and its verb form agapaō, speak of a love that seeks the good of the other regardless of merit or response​. It’s often defined by action: a deliberate choice to do good and show kindness.

  • For example, agápē is the word in “God is love (agápē)” (1 John 4:8) and “For God so loved (agapaō) the world…” (John 3:16)​.

This love is not merely a feeling; it is active and purposeful. One Bible resource describes agápē as “unconditional, sacrificial love – the highest kind of love, devotion of the will”​.

In other words, agápē is a love defined by self-giving and commitment.

  • It’s the kind of love Jesus demonstrated, and the kind of love that the Holy Spirit produces in believers’ hearts (Galatians 5:22).
  • Notably, the KJV sometimes uses the word “charity” for agápē (especially in 1 Corinthians 13).
  • In 17th-century English, “charity” meant generous, selfless love – so when we read “charity suffereth long, and is kind…” in 1 Corinthians 13, it’s describing agápē love in action.

Another Greek word is phílos/phileō (φιλία/φιλέω), often translated as “love” or “friendship.” Phileō refers to affectionate, emotional love – the warm feeling of friendship or familial love​.

  • It’s the root of words like philadelphia (“brotherly love,” Romans 12:10)​.
  • When the New Testament speaks of loving one’s friends (“Phileo”), or when Jesus calls His disciples “friends” (John 15:15), it carries the idea of personal attachment and fondness​.

This is a mutual love, often based on relationship or enjoyment of the other’s company.

Phileō is important (after all, believers are to have brotherly love for each other), but in describing God’s love, the New Testament writers more often use agápē to highlight the unconditional nature of divine love.

(Agápē and phileō can overlap in meaning, but generally agápē emphasizes commitment and self-sacrifice, while phileō emphasizes affection and companionship​.)

The Greek language also has the word éros (ἔρως) for romantic or passionate love. Interestingly, éros does not appear in the New Testament text.

The concept of romantic love is acknowledged in Scripture (for example, the Song of Solomon celebrates marital love), but the NT writers chose not to use the term éros.

Instead, marital love is often described in terms of agápē (see Ephesians 5:25, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church…” – that’s agápē).

Another term, storgē (στοργή), meaning natural family affection, is also not used directly in the NT, but its concept appears in compound words.

  • For instance, philostorgos (“loving dearly”) is used in Romans 12:10 to urge Christians to be devoted like family, and astorgos (“without natural affection”) appears when describing a lack of love in sinful society (e.g. 2 Timothy 3:3, KJV: “without natural affection”).

These nuances show that biblical love isn’t one-dimensional – it spans from compassionate commitment (agápē) to warm friendship (phileō) to loyal family bond (storgē).

Above all, the New Testament highlights agápē as the kind of love God has shown us and the kind we are empowered to show others​.

Summary of Biblical Love Terms: In the Old Testament, ahavah and ḥesed paint a picture of devoted, enduring love – both emotional and covenantal.

In the New Testament, agápē stands out as God’s kind of love – generous, undeserved, and active.

Understanding these words helps us see that when the KJV speaks about “love,” it’s often talking about much more than a feeling – it’s speaking of action, loyalty, sacrifice, and affection intertwined.

God’s Love in Action: Old Testament Insights

From the very beginning, God has revealed Himself through actions of love. The Old Testament is not just about laws and judgments; it overflows with stories and symbols of God’s love for humanity. Let’s look at a few key examples and patterns of God’s love in the Old Testament:

Choosing and Cherishing His People:

God’s love is the reason Israel became His chosen people.

  • Deuteronomy 7:7-8 (KJV) explains that the Lord set His love on Israel and redeemed them from slavery in Egypt not because they were numerous or deserving, but because “the LORD loved you.”

This was pure grace – love as an undeserved gift. The prophet Hosea later echoed that God’s love was the very basis for Israel’s election.

  • Hosea 11:1 portrays God as a loving father: “When Israel was a child, then I loved him, and called my son out of Egypt.”

Despite Israel’s unfaithfulness, God’s fatherly love continued. Through covenant promises, God bound Himself to His people in love – declaring, “I will be your God, and you shall be my people.”

This covenant relationship is often described in passionate terms of love and commitment, akin to a marriage.

Enduring Mercy and Forgiveness:

Time and again, Israel strayed from God, yet His ḥesed (steadfast love) endured.

  • A beautiful refrain in the Psalms says, “His mercy endureth for ever” (e.g. Psalm 136, KJV) – essentially “His steadfast love never ends.”

Even when discipline came, God’s ultimate motive was love and restoration. The book of Judges repeatedly shows Israel sinning and suffering, but God raising up deliverers out of compassion.

The prophets record God’s heartbreak over Israel’s sins alongside His deep yearning to forgive.

  • In Isaiah 54:10, God comforts Israel, “The mountains shall depart… but my kindness (ḥesed) shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of my peace be removed.”

This is covenantal love speaking – love that persists even when tested.

  • We also see God’s willingness to forgive in verses like Psalm 103:11-12, “For as the heaven is high above the earth, so great is his mercy toward them that fear him… as far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.” Such forgiveness flows from His loving heart.

Tender Compassion:

God’s love in the OT often shows itself as compassion for the needy.

  • He is described as “a father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows” (Psalm 68:5), caring for the vulnerable.
  • When His people suffered, the Lord “was grieved for the misery of Israel” (Judges 10:16).
  • In Hosea 11:8, after describing Israel’s waywardness, God cries out like a loving parent: “How shall I give thee up, Ephraim?… Mine heart is turned within me, my repentings are kindled together.”
  • We feel God’s anguish of love – He cannot let His beloved go. Lamentations 3:22 (KJV) likewise affirms, “It is of the LORD’s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.”

His racham (compassionate love) never fails; every morning His mercies are new.

Images and Metaphors of Love:

The OT uses powerful imagery to illustrate God’s love. One recurring picture is God as a husband and Israel as His bride. Though Israel was often unfaithful, God remained a loving husband, seeking to win back His bride.

The entire book of Hosea is a dramatic portrayal of this. God commanded Hosea to marry an unfaithful woman, Gomer, as a living illustration. Hosea’s painful love for Gomer mirrored God’s scandalous love for His people – a love that persists despite betrayal​.

  • Hosea ends with a hopeful promise of restoration: God will heal Israel’s backsliding and “love them freely” (Hosea 14:4).

Another metaphor is the father-child relationship.

  • God calls Israel His firstborn son (Exodus 4:22) and carries them “as a man doth bear his son” (Deuteronomy 1:31).
  • Even when Israel rebels, God says, “I taught Ephraim also to go, taking them by their arms… I drew them with cords of a man, with bands of love” (Hosea 11:3-4, KJV)​.

One can picture a parent lovingly teaching a toddler to walk – that’s how God describes His guidance of Israel, tied to them with “bands of love.”

  • We also find maternal imagery: God compares Himself to a mother who cannot forget her nursing baby (Isaiah 49:15) and even to a mother eagle stirring her nest and carrying her young on her wings (Deuteronomy 32:11) – showing both tenderness and protective strength.
  • Shepherding is yet another metaphor: “The LORD is my shepherd” (Psalm 23:1) expresses God’s caring leadership, and in Isaiah 40:11, “He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom.”

All these pictures – husband, parent, shepherd – communicate the intimacy and commitment of God’s love for His own.

Persistent Love Through Correction:

It’s important to note that God’s love in the OT isn’t mere sentimentality – it’s righteous and sometimes corrective. Precisely because He loves, God disciplines His people for their good.

  • Proverbs 3:12 (KJV) says, “For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.”

When Israel fell into idolatry, God allowed trials (like exile) to chastise and eventually bring them back to Him.

In Hosea’s story, after warning of judgment, God’s love ultimately prevails to restore. True love seeks the beloved’s best, which includes holiness and wholeness.

  • Thus, even God’s judgments were aimed at curing Israel’s unfaithfulness so they could return to Him. “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten,” God says (Revelation 3:19).

We see this principle in the OT: Love sometimes takes the form of tough love – not to destroy, but to purify and reconcile. God’s covenant love means He won’t abandon His people, but neither will He abandon His righteousness.

In the OT narrative, God’s love is a holy love – full of mercy yet upholding justice.

In summary, the Old Testament reveals a God whose heart burns with love for humanity. Whether through choosing a people, bearing with them patiently, showing mercy, or using poetic metaphors, God communicates that He deeply cares.

Despite human failure, His love endures and His ultimate plan, hinted at through promises and prophecies, is to heal the relationship and dwell with His beloved people forever. These ancient stories set the stage for the New Testament, where God’s love steps into history in an unparalleled way.

God’s Love Revealed: New Testament Fulfillment

In the New Testament, God’s love takes center stage in the person and work of Jesus Christ. What was promised and foreshadowed in the Old Testament is fulfilled in the New. The same God who declared His steadfast love in ages past now demonstrates that love in the most tangible way: by entering our world and giving Himself for us.

Jesus Christ – God’s Love Incarnate:

Christians believe that Jesus is the Son of God, and in Christ the fullness of God’s love is shown to us.

  • Jesus’s coming was motivated by love: “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son” (John 3:16, KJV).

In Christ, the abstract became concrete – God’s love got a human face and hands and feet. Jesus healed the sick, welcomed outcasts, fed the hungry, and taught the truth.

  • The Gospels often note that Jesus was “moved with compassion” (e.g. Mark 1:41) when He saw people suffering.
  • He embodied the racham compassion of God, feeling deep love for the masses “because they fainted, and were scattered abroad, as sheep having no shepherd” (Matthew 9:36).

Every act of Jesus – from touching lepers to weeping at Lazarus’s tomb – was an expression of divine love in action.

  • And ultimately, Jesus demonstrated the greatest love: “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13).
  • Jesus laid down His life on the cross for us – an act Scripture extols as the supreme proof of God’s love: “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8, KJV)​.

Unlike human love that loves the lovable, God’s agápē love extends even to His enemies. Jesus died for sinners – for people who didn’t deserve it – showing that God’s love is unmerited, sacrificial, and forgiving.

The Cross and Redemption:

It is at Calvary that the full measure of God’s love is revealed. Consider what happened: the sinless Son of God took on the punishment of guilty humanity, all so that we could be reconciled to God.

  • Jesus cried from the cross, “Father, forgive them,” extending love even to those who crucified Him.
  • No wonder 1 John 4:9-10 says, “In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him… herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.”

Every aspect of our salvation is rooted in love. God didn’t have to save us – He chose to, because of love​.

  • Ephesians 2:4-5 declares that “God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ.”

When we grasp that the Almighty God loves us so much that He would bear our sins and sorrows, it leaves us in awe. This is why the cross, a symbol of agony, is also the greatest symbol of love.

  • It fulfills prophecies like Isaiah 53, where the “Suffering Servant” bears the iniquities of many – a prophecy of love expressed through suffering for others’ sake.

Jesus’s sacrifice also fulfilled all the Old Testament types that hinted at God’s saving love:

  • He is the true Passover Lamb whose blood saves us from death, the Good Shepherd who lays down His life for the sheep, the Bridegroom who loves His bride (the Church) so much that He gives Himself for her (Ephesians 5:25-27).

The covenant love (ḥesed) we saw in the OT finds its clearest expression in the New Covenant, sealed by Christ’s blood.

  • In Jesus, the God of Israel kept the promise, “I will betroth thee unto me in lovingkindness (ḥesed)” (Hosea 2:19).

As one commentary beautifully noted, the Lord “rich in ḥesed” has drawn near to us in Christ, who is “full of grace and truth” – we seek God’s steadfast love and find ourselves in the arms of Jesus​.

Continuity with the Old Testament:

Far from being a different or new deity, Jesus shows the same character of love God had all along – now in sharp focus. The New Testament explicitly ties back to Old Testament love themes.

  • For instance, Mary, Zechariah, and others in Luke 1 celebrate God’s mercy (eleos in Greek, akin to ḥesed) in sending the Messiah, “to perform the mercy promised to our fathers” (Luke 1:72).
  • Jesus’s birth itself is seen as God “remembering His love.”
  • When Jesus tells the parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15), depicting a father who runs to welcome his wayward child, He is painting the picture of God’s forgiving love – a theme found in prophets like Hosea and Jeremiah.
  • Likewise, the idea of God as a husband reappears with Christ portrayed as the Bridegroom and the Church as His Bride (Ephesians 5:25-32, Revelation 21:2).

The covenant relationship of love becomes personal salvation for all who believe. Thus, the OT metaphors – fatherly compassion, husbandly devotion, shepherd care – are all embodied in Jesus.

  • He spoke of gathering Jerusalem’s children under His wings like a hen with her chicks (Matthew 23:37), echoing God’s protective love.
  • He called Himself the “Good Shepherd” who knows His sheep by name and gives His life for them (John 10:14-15).
  • He even used a motherly image when He lamented over Jerusalem with that hen analogy.

Clearly, Jesus didn’t just speak about God’s love – He lived it out. In doing so, He showed that He and the Father are one in heart: “Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father” (John 14:9 NIV). God’s character of love shines through Christ.

Resurrection and the Ongoing Love of God:

Jesus’s story did not end in death – He rose again on the third day, demonstrating the power of God’s love over sin and death.

  • The resurrection assures us that God’s love truly brings eternal life (“that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life” – John 3:16).
  • After ascending, Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to dwell in believers’ hearts. Romans 5:5 says “the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.”

This means God’s love isn’t just something shown to us; it’s also poured into us, enabling us to love Him and others. The New Testament letters celebrate the steadfastness of God’s love for believers.

  • Romans 8:38-39 famously declares that nothing can separate us from “the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

We are secure in His love. Just as Jeremiah spoke of God’s “everlasting love” to Israel, the NT affirms that in Christ, we are forever loved by God.

This fulfills the deepest promises of the OT – that God would make an everlasting covenant of love with His people and never forsake them.

Love for the Whole World:

Another noticeable development in the NT is the expansion of God’s covenant love to all nations. The OT focused on Israel, though it always had hints of God’s plan to bless all peoples (God told Abraham “in thee shall all families of the earth be blessed”).

  • In Christ, that promise is fulfilled as the circle of God’s love widens to include Jew and Gentile alike. “God so loved the world” (John 3:16) – not just one nation.
  • The early Christians marveled that God’s love and salvation were now poured out also on the Gentiles (non-Jews). As Paul explained, this was always God’s plan: “that the Gentiles might glorify God for his mercy” (Romans 15:9).
  • Passages like Ephesians 2 describe how, out of love, God has broken down the dividing wall and made one family in Christ.
  • This universal scope of God’s love is the fulfillment of prophetic hints like Hosea 2:23, “I will say to them which were not my people, Thou art my people; and they shall say, Thou art my God.”
  • Indeed, Paul quotes that to illustrate Gentiles being called “beloved” of God (Romans 9:25).
  • The Great Commission (Matthew 28:19) to take the gospel to all nations flows from God’s heart of love for the whole world.
  • In Revelation 7:9, we see the beautiful culmination: people from every tribe and tongue gathered in worship – the worldwide family of the loved and redeemed.

In all these ways, the New Testament loudly echoes and surpasses the Old in declaring God’s amazing love. Where the OT gave promises and pictures, the NT gives the Person – Jesus – in whom “the love of God appeared” (cf. Titus 3:4-5).

It’s often said that the Old Testament is God saying “I love you,” and the New Testament is God showing “I love you” at the cross.

The two testaments together present a unified story of divine love: creation (love made us), covenant (love bound us to God), Christ (love rescued us), and new creation (love will be fully realized when we dwell with God forever).

As 1 John 4:9 states, “In this was manifested the love of God…” – Jesus is the manifestation of God’s eternal love.

Living in God’s Love: The Believer’s Response

God’s love isn’t just a beautiful truth to admire – it’s a reality meant to change us. The Bible not only reveals God’s love to us; it also calls us to respond to that love by loving God and others.

In fact, Jesus taught that love is the greatest commandment and the hallmark of His followers.

The KJV (and all translations) contain numerous commands, exhortations, and corrections regarding love in the Christian life. Let’s break down what it means for believers to live out God’s love:

The Greatest Commandment – Loving God and Neighbor

When Jesus was asked to name the greatest commandment in the law, He answered: “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind… And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself” (Matthew 22:37-39, KJV).

Here Jesus quotes the Old Testament (Deuteronomy 6:5 and Leviticus 19:18). Love for God and love for neighbor are the foundational commands of Scripture.

Our first calling as humans is to love God wholeheartedly – essentially to respond to His love for us with devotion, loyalty, and worship.

God wants a relationship with us that is based on mutual love: He loved us first, and we love Him back (1 John 4:19).

This is not a half-hearted love, but one involving all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. It means God should occupy the throne of our hearts – we cherish Him above all else.

The second command, love your neighbor as yourself, flows out of the first. If we truly love God, we will value those He made in His image. Jesus even expanded on “neighbor” to include everyone around us, even our enemies.

  • In the Sermon on the Mount, He taught: “Love your enemies, bless them that curse you… that ye may be the children of your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:44-45).

This is a radical love – showing kindness to those who don’t deserve it, just as God did for us. The early Christians understood that all of God’s law is summed up in love.

  • Romans 13:10 says, “Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.”

If we truly love, we will naturally keep God’s commandments about how to treat one another (we won’t steal, lie, murder, etc.).

  • In practical terms, loving our neighbor means seeking their well-being, showing compassion, being patient and kind (as 1 Corinthians 13 describes).
  • It means treating others the way we would want to be treated (Luke 6:31).

This kind of love is not always easy – in fact, without God’s help it’s impossible to sustain. But the Holy Spirit empowers us to love beyond our natural ability, pouring God’s love into our hearts (Romans 5:5).

Day by day, we rely on His strength to help us forgive those who wrong us, serve those in need, and remain faithful in showing love even when we don’t feel like it.

“Love One Another” – The New Commandment

Jesus gave His disciples a “new commandment” the night before He went to the cross: “A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another” (John 13:34, KJV).

The call to love wasn’t new (we just saw it in the OT laws), but what’s new is the standard and example – “as I have loved you.” Jesus raised the bar: our love for each other is to mirror His sacrificial, servant-hearted love.

In the very context of that command, Jesus had just washed His disciples’ feet – taking the role of a lowly servant to care for them.

  • He then said, “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:35).

In other words, love is the defining mark of Christ’s followers. Not our knowledge, not our power, but our love – the kind of love that astonishes the world because it reflects Jesus. The early church took this to heart.

The New Testament letters are full of exhortations to “love one another.”

For example: “Above all things have fervent charity among yourselves” (1 Peter 4:8); “Let brotherly love continue” (Hebrews 13:1); “This is the message that ye heard from the beginning, that we should love one another” (1 John 3:11).

Believers are called to view each other as brothers and sisters in God’s family – and thus to show family-like affection and loyalty.

  • Romans 12:10 (KJV) urges, “Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another.”

That phrase “kindly affectioned” (philostorgos in Greek) literally means to love dearly, as one would love their own kin.

  • Such love is practical and humble: it involves honoring others above ourselves, bearing one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and using our gifts to serve the body of Christ in love (Ephesians 4:15-16).

This kind of community love was one of the reasons the early church grew – people noticed “how these Christians love each other.”

  • It’s meant to be a living testimony of God’s love. John even writes, “If God so loved us, we ought also to love one another” (1 John 4:11).
  • Our forgiving and accepting each other is a response to God forgiving and accepting us in Christ (Ephesians 4:32).

Of course, the church is made of imperfect people, and conflicts do arise. That’s why much of the New Testament teaching on love also includes correction when believers fail to love.

For instance, the Apostle Paul scolded the Corinthians for their lack of love – they were competing and suing each other.

  • In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul famously describes what true Christian love (agápē) looks like – patient, kind, not envious or boastful, not self-seeking or easily angered.
  • He tells them that without love, all their spiritual gifts and knowledge amount to nothing. This serves as a correction for any church or Christian: no matter how “religious” we appear, if we are lacking love, we’ve missed the heart of discipleship.
  • The church in Ephesus, in Revelation 2:4, is another example – Jesus says, “I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love.” They had works and doctrine, but their original passion and love (probably for Christ and people) had cooled. He calls them to repent and return to the love they had at first.

These warnings remind us that we must guard our hearts to keep love from growing cold (Matthew 24:12 speaks of love of many waxing cold in the end times). We might ask ourselves regularly: Am I still motivated by love?

Love in Everyday Life

What does living in God’s love look like practically? It’s often seen in small, daily actions as much as in big gestures.

The Bible gives many concrete examples: showing hospitality (inviting others in, as encouraged in 1 Peter 4:9), giving to those in need (1 John 3:17 challenges, “Whoso hath this world’s good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion…, how dwelleth the love of God in him?”), encouraging the discouraged, and even gently correcting those who stray (speaking the truth in love).

  • The fruit of the Spirit begins with love (Galatians 5:22), so as we walk by the Spirit, love will increasingly characterize our attitude and interactions.
  • This includes our family life – husbands are told to “love your wives, even as Christ…loved the church” (Ephesians 5:25), and wives to love their husbands and children (Titus 2:4).
  • Parents show love by raising their children in the Lord, and not provoking them (Ephesians 6:4).
  • On the flip side, Scripture warns against misdirected love: loving self or money or pleasure more than God (2 Timothy 3:2-4) – these are traps that lead us away from true love.
  • We’re also cautioned, “Love not the world” in the sense of worldly values that oppose God (1 John 2:15).

In other words, keep our love focused on God and people, not on material or sinful things.

One beautiful description of living out love is found in Colossians 3:12-14. It encourages believers to clothe themselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, forgiving one another as Christ forgave us, and then it says “above all these things put on charity (love), which is the bond of perfectness.”

Love is like the outer garment that holds all the other virtues together in unity. When love guides us, qualities like patience and kindness naturally follow. We become more understanding of others’ faults (since love “covers a multitude of sins,” 1 Peter 4:8, meaning it overlooks offenses and forgives).

It’s worth acknowledging that loving others isn’t always easy. We all encounter difficult people or situations that test our capacity to love – perhaps an irritating coworker, a family member who hurt us, or a stranger in need when we’re busy.

This is where we remember that God first loved us while we were difficult, and His love now lives in us. We rely on His love as a reservoir that won’t run dry. When I struggle to love someone, I often pray, “Lord, help me to see them with Your eyes and love them with Your love.”

And God is faithful to soften my heart or give me strength to act lovingly despite my feelings.

Empathy and humility are keys here: recognizing that I, too, am imperfect and loved by grace, helps me extend grace to others. Sometimes love will mean setting healthy boundaries or speaking hard truth – it’s not loving to enable destructive behavior.

But even when we must correct or set limits, we strive to do so from a place of genuine concern for the person’s well-being. Ephesians 4:15 calls us to “speak the truth in love.” Jesus modeled this by both correcting and forgiving with perfect love.

In everyday struggles – whether it’s impatience in traffic or a conflict at home – remembering God’s immense love for us can recalibrate our hearts. “What would love do?” becomes a guiding question.

  • Over time, as we practice love, it grows. 1 John 4:12 intriguingly says, “If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us.”

In loving others, we actually experience God’s presence and mature in His love. It’s a virtuous cycle: God’s love -> transforms us -> we love -> experience more of God’s love.

To summarize, the Christian life is essentially learning to live in the love of God – receiving it, trusting it, and giving it out. We love God fully, love each other deeply, love the lost sincerely, and even love our enemies surprisingly.

It’s a tall order, but we are not left alone; “the love of Christ constraineth us” (2 Corinthians 5:14) and the Spirit enables us.

When we fail, we repent and receive God’s forgiving love anew, then continue forward. Truly, as Paul prayed, we continually seek to “know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge,” so that we “might be filled with all the fulness of God” (Ephesians 3:19). The more we grasp His love, the more it overflows from us.

Seeing the Theme of Love Throughout the Bible

One of the joys of Bible study is noticing how consistent and connected the theme of God’s love is from Genesis to Revelation. Despite being a collection of 66 books written across centuries, the Bible tells a cohesive love story. Here are a few thematic connections and fulfillments that highlight God’s love:

Promise and Fulfillment:

  • In the Old Testament, God promised a Savior motivated by love. Prophecies like Isaiah 53 (the suffering servant) and Zechariah 12:10 (God saying, “they shall look upon me whom they have pierced”) point to a loving sacrifice to remove sin.
  • The famous prophecy of “Unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given” (Isaiah 9:6) shows that the coming of Christ was a gift of love from God. The New Testament joyfully records these fulfillments – “For unto you is born this day… a Saviour” (Luke 2:11).

Jesus’s life, death, and resurrection fulfill the covenant love God pledged to the patriarchs and Israel.

  • Paul in Romans 15:8-9 explains that “Jesus Christ was a minister of the circumcision for the truth of God, to confirm the promises made unto the fathers: and that the Gentiles might glorify God for his mercy.”

In other words, Christ’s coming verified God’s ancient promises (to Abraham, David, etc.) and extended mercy (love in action) to the nations​.

Every promise of God finds its “Yes” in Christ (2 Corinthians 1:20) – and since so many promises were rooted in His love (for example, promises to forgive, to restore, to be with us), Christ is the embodiment of those loving promises kept.

Typology – Foreshadowing Love:

Many persons and events in the Old Testament served as “types” or foreshadows of Christ and illustrate aspects of God’s love, even if the people back then didn’t fully realize it.

For instance, Abraham offering his beloved son Isaac (Genesis 22) is seen as a type of God the Father offering Jesus out of love for us.

Just as Abraham told Isaac God would provide a lamb, and a ram was sacrificed in Isaac’s place, so God provided Jesus, the Lamb of God, in our place – a profound act of love.

Another type is Joseph: betrayed by his brothers, yet later forgiving them and saving them from famine. Joseph’s mercy and care for those who wronged him echoes the forgiveness and saving love of Christ, who forgave His persecutors and offers salvation even to those who initially rejected Him.

Boaz, the kinsman-redeemer in the book of Ruth, is a wonderful picture too – he showed kindness and love by redeeming Ruth (a foreign widow) and taking her as his bride, just as Christ lovingly redeems us (outsiders and sinners) and makes us His bride, the Church.

Then there’s King David’s heart – though flawed, David’s songs depict a deep love for God, and his shepherd’s heart for his people reflects the coming Good Shepherd.

Even the flawed love of human characters can point to the perfect love of Christ by contrast: for example, Hosea’s faithful love for Gomer, as mentioned, directly symbolizes God’s faithful love, and Hosea buying Gomer back from slavery (Hosea 3) foreshadows Christ redeeming us out of the slavery of sin.

The Bible even uses the term “redeem” in both stories – Hosea paid a price to restore his wife; Jesus said He came “to give His life a ransom for many.” These typologies aren’t coincidental; they weave a tapestry where threads of love run from beginning to end.

Symbols of Sacrifice:

The Old Testament sacrificial system itself was a big arrow pointing to the necessity and provision of love through sacrifice.

  • Every time a guilt-ridden Israelite brought a lamb to the altar, it was a reminder that “without shedding of blood is no remission” (Hebrews 9:22).

But Hebrews also tells us those sacrifices were insufficient by themselves – they pointed to the sacrifice of Christ, made once for all. What motivates someone to lay down their life for others? Love.

  • Jesus is called “the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world” (John 1:29).

This title connects to the Passover lamb in Exodus – a spotless lamb whose blood, painted on Israel’s doorposts, saved them from death. Jesus fulfills the Passover: out of love, His blood protects us from judgment and sets us free from the slavery of sin, just as Israel was freed from Egypt.

We also see in the New Covenant (foretold in Jeremiah 31:31-34) the promise that God would forgive sins and write His law on hearts – an ultimate act of love restoring intimacy between God and people.

  • At the Last Supper, Jesus said, “This cup is the new testament in my blood, which is shed for you” (Luke 22:20).

He directly linked His loving sacrifice to the fulfillment of Jeremiah’s prophecy – forgiveness and transformed hearts through a bond of love sealed by His blood.

Prophetic Imagery and Fulfillment:

The prophets often spoke of a future when God’s love would be fully realized among His people.

  • They envisioned God rejoicing over His people with love – “He will rejoice over thee with joy; He will rest in his love, He will joy over thee with singing” (Zephaniah 3:17) – and a time when “the earth shall be full of the knowledge of the LORD” (Isaiah 11:9), which includes knowing His love.

The coming of Christ and the outpouring of the Holy Spirit began the fulfillment of these hopes, and Revelation completes the picture with the idea of God dwelling with His people in a new heaven and new earth, wiping away every tear – a tender image of eternal love and care (Revelation 21:3-4).

We’re still in the “already/not yet” – God’s love is fully given, yet the world still awaits the final removal of sin and pain. But even that expectation is framed by love: it’s often called the “blessed hope” because we, as the bride of Christ, await the loving Bridegroom’s return for us.

The Bible’s grand narrative from the Garden of Eden (where love was broken by sin) to the New Jerusalem (where love is perfected) shows God’s persistent purpose to bring us back into full love-relationship with Himself.

As we trace these connections, we see that God’s love is the heartbeat of Scripture. It’s not a secondary theme – it is the driving force behind God’s actions and His plan of redemption.

From cover to cover, God is saying, “I love you – I created you in love, I pursue you in love, I have made a way for you to return to Me in love, and I am preparing a place for you to be with Me in love forever.”

It’s truly breathtaking. And it assures us that when we talk about God’s love today, we stand on a solid foundation of biblical revelation.

Conclusion: Embracing God’s Love in Our Lives

Studying God’s love in the Bible should never be just an academic exercise; it’s an invitation to a relationship and a transformation.

The King James Version and other translations preserve these powerful testimonies of love – verses we may have learned as children, like “Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so,” remain profoundly true for us as adults grappling with life’s challenges.

Perhaps you find yourself at times doubting God’s love. Life’s pain – illness, loss, loneliness – can make us wonder, “Does God really care about me?” If that’s you, take heart.

The entirety of Scripture shouts “Yes, He does!”

In moments of doubt, look to the cross, where God proved His love beyond all question​. “He that spared not His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?” (Romans 8:32).

In other words, if God has already given the ultimate gift out of love, we can trust Him to care for us in every lesser need.

Also, recall the tender images of God we saw: He is your Father who hasn’t forgotten you, your Shepherd who will carry you when you’re weak, your Husband (or closest friend) who won’t forsake you. He collects your tears in a bottle (Psalm 56:8) and knows every hair on your head.

The Bible invites us not just to know about God’s love, but to know it personally“to know the love of Christ, which passes knowledge” (Ephesians 3:19).

That sounds paradoxical (know a love beyond knowledge!), but it means experiencing it in your heart and life, not only analyzing it with your mind. It’s like the difference between reading a letter about a distant relative’s affection and actually feeling their warm hug. God wants you to feel the embrace of His love.

At the same time, if you’re like me, you might feel unworthy of God’s love. We’re painfully aware of our sins and failures.

But the wonder of agápē is that God’s love is a choice He made – an act of His will – not something we earned​. “God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

So we can humbly receive His love as a gift. It’s okay to admit, “Lord, I don’t deserve Your love.” In fact, that humility allows us to see how amazing His grace is! Once we accept that He loves us anyway, we find our identity and security in that love.

  • “Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God” (1 John 3:1). Truly, being God’s beloved child is our greatest identity.

Moreover, knowing God’s love gives us strength to face life’s trials. Paul prayed that believers, “being rooted and grounded in love,” would have strength (Ephesians 3:17-18).

Think of a tree: if its roots are deep in nutritious soil, it can withstand storms. When our roots go down into the rich soil of God’s love, we’re anchored. Circumstances might shake us, but we won’t uproot easily because we know “the Lord is on my side”.

Even in discipline or hardship, we can say, “whom the Lord loveth He chasteneth” – He has loving purposes in our pain, refining us like gold.

“All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28) – a beloved verse that assures us God’s plan is motivated by love and results in our ultimate good.

Finally, embracing God’s love means extending it to others, as we discussed. This is perhaps the toughest part: actually loving real people – with all their quirks and flaws – day in and day out. It’s much easier to talk about love than to practice it! But remember, we’re not left alone.

Jude 1:21 encourages us to “keep yourselves in the love of God.” That means staying connected to His love through prayer, Scripture, and fellowship, so that it continually fills and refills our hearts. When we consciously dwell in His love, it naturally overflows.

If you’re struggling to love someone, ask God for a fresh outpouring of His love for them. I’ve seen relationships healed and attitudes changed in prayer, when God floods a situation with His kind of love.

Love is indeed “the more excellent way” (1 Corinthians 12:31b) and it never fails in the end (1 Corinthians 13:8). It might take time, but love planted will bear fruit.

In a practical sense, we grow in love through practice. Maybe today that looks like listening more attentively to a family member, or offering forgiveness to someone who hurt you, or doing an act of kindness with no strings attached. Small steps, prompted by love, have a way of adding up and even coming back to bless us.

As we do these things, we stay honest with God about our struggles (“Lord, I find this hard, please help me”) and we stay rooted in His Word where we find constant encouragement to continue in love.

There will be days when we mess up – snap in anger or act selfishly – but those are opportunities to receive God’s forgiving love anew, apologize where needed, and try again. Love is a journey, and God is patient with us on it.

To conclude, the Bible’s message of God’s love is both timeless and timely. In a world where “love” is often misunderstood or grows cold, Scripture shows us what true love really is: God Himself.

1 John 4:16 says “we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.” My prayer for you and for me is that we know and believe this love more and more each day.

Let it sink in that you are loved by the Creator of the universe – fully, passionately, and eternally. And let that truth liberate you to love Him back with all your heart and to love others as yourself.

As we live in God’s love, we become reflections of Him in a dark world, shining the light of love. To borrow Paul’s blessing: “The Lord direct your hearts into the love of God” (2 Thessalonians 3:5).

May you ever grow in understanding how high and deep and wide is the love of God for you, and may that love transform every part of your life.

Go forth today knowing that you are cherished by God – and nothing can separate you from that love in Christ (Romans 8:39). That is the solid ground we stand on, and the song our hearts can sing: “Jesus loves me, this I know…” Amen.

Citations

  1. Hebrew word ahavah (love) usage in various contexts​hebrew4christians.comhebrew4christians.com.
  2. Aleteia – From Ahavah to Agapē: The meanings of love in Scripture, on ahavah as human and divine love, and its emphasis on commitment​aleteia.orgaleteia.org.
  3. Precept Austin – Lovingkindness: Definition of Hesed, noting ḥesed is often translated “lovingkindness” or “mercy” in KJV​preceptaustin.org.
  4. BibleProject – A Close Look at the Meaning of God’s Love, explaining ḥesed as a dependable, loyal love that combines affection and commitment​bibleproject.combibleproject.com.
  5. BibleProject – discussion of ḥesed translations (Exodus 34:6) and meaning​bibleproject.combibleproject.com.
  6. Chabad.org – “Love: Ahavah”, noting the root idea of giving in Hebrew love​chabad.org.
  7. Precept Austin – Love-Agape (Greek Word Study), describing agápē as unconditional, sacrificial, volitional love (love of the will)​preceptaustin.org.
  8. Aleteia – definitions of Greek terms: agápē as God’s unconditional love​aleteia.org; philia as brotherly/friendship love​aleteia.org; eros not in NT​aleteia.org.
  9. Aleteia – theological summary that Hebrew covenant love and Greek sacrificial love converge in Christ​aleteia.org, and Jesus’ command to love one another as He loved us​aleteia.org.
  10. GotQuestions.org – What does it mean that God is love?, highlighting John 3:16 and Romans 5:8 as greatest expressions of God’s love​gotquestions.org and that God’s love doesn’t conflict with His holiness – all God’s actions are loving​gotquestions.org.
  11. Park Baptist Church – What is Love? (Hosea), explaining that Hosea’s marriage was meant to model God’s love for an unfaithful people​parkbaptist.org.
  12. Precept Austin (Wuest’s insights) – contrast of phileō (responsive, affectionate love) vs agápē (esteeming, unconditional love)​preceptaustin.orgpreceptaustin.org.
  13. Wikipedia – Love of God in Christianity, noting Hosea 11:1 shows God’s love as basis for Israel’s election​en.wikipedia.org and that Song of Solomon has been seen as symbolizing Christ’s love for the Church​en.wikipedia.org.
  14. Precept Austin – comments connecting OT ḥesed (Exodus 34:6) to Jesus as “full of grace and truth” in John 1:14​preceptaustin.org.



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